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An unnamed person, "Why don't you like the Oekermans?" My answer, "Because they are deceitful, dishonest and they stole my son and made false accusations about me." An unnamed person, "Well, that's no reason." Here's a question that has been directed to me on a couple of occasions. "When you informed your ex-wife and her mother that you were moving out of the Oekerman house you're ex-mother-in-law became livid. She reacted as though you were jilting her instead of her daughter. Do you think the old bat had a secret crush on you?" That is an interesting question. I think I'll run that question by some mental health experts and see what they say and then I'll post the general consensus here. Of course I won't ask Dr. Ron Turco because he seems to be unaware of anything going on around him and I wouldn't want to unnecessarily traumatize his brain by asking him a question that requires some thought. Well, I got a few answers back. The consensus seems to be that the old bat so closely identified with her mentally ill daughter that any rejection of her daughter was also considered a rejection of her and her family. The old bat also probably suffered from what is called "factitious disorder" and Borderline Personality Disorder. This would expain why the psycho Victor Oekerman family tried on numerous occasions to lock me in a bedroom to prevent me from going to work, or to play basketball, or to participate in chess tournaments. For some reason they were convinced that I was going out with other women and cheating on the psycho ex-wife. I wasn't. Most of the time I managed to escape and then they would chase me down the street. The neighbors thought this was somewhat humorous. Some years back I took my two daughters and their mother to Costa Rica for four or five months. While we were down there I joined an American Legion Post in San Jose. One of the bartenders that worked at the Post was an undercover agent for the Costa Rican National Judicial Police. One night when I was at the Post alone he told me he wanted to ask me some questions. I told him ok. After he closed the bar at the American Legion Post he took me to a bar in San Jose. He told me that his agency had noticed that some agents from various American agencies had taken a rather noticable interest in what I was doing. He then told me these agencies were the Diplomatic Security Service, the DEA, the FBI, the CIA and the Naval Criminal Investigative Service (NCIS). He told me the only agency that didn't notice they were being checked out by his agency was NCIS. That figures. He also asked why they acted like buffoons. I told him I thought it was an NCIS tradition. He wanted to know why the various agencies were checking me out. I told him I didn't really know. He then wanted to know my real reason for being in Costa Rica. So I told him. He told me the apartment in Alajuela that I, my wife, and my daughters were staying in was bugged and so was the apartment next door. He told me we were being constantly followed around. I told him I knew that but since I couldn't do anything about it I just ignored it or had some fun with the knowledge. I asked him if his agency had undercover agents in all the bars that Americans hung out in. He wouldn't give me that information but I knew they did. We then talked about other things. He indicated that various agencies of the U.S. knew everything about how his agency worked and he told me a little about how his agency worked. He told me about the contract his agency had with Israeli Intelligence. I guess he thought I was a spy and I already knew this stuff. He even asked how the Costa Rican security agencies could get better. I told him the Israelis were the best there were but it might be a good idea to hire an American private investigation firm. I liked the guy and we went out for drinks on a few occasions but never to a bar where there were any Americans. When I was growing up in Tucson, AZ during my high school years it seemed like about 20 percent of the people in Tucson were undercover cops from various agencies, including state and federal agencies. Another 20 percent were members of the various crime organizations. Another ten percent were just spies and because of the Vietnam War and the fact that Davis Monthan Air Force base was the second largest air force base in the U.S., Tucson always had a large military population coming and going. One of the jobs I had when I was in high school was delivering supplies to sensitive areas of the air force base. This caused me to be checked out by an unknown air force agency. I must have passed the background check because I did get the go ahead to go into those sensitive areas and make my deliveries. It was pretty interesting. I met a lot of interesting people. Many of the jobs I had while I was in high school were simple jobs in the bar and restaurant industries and in these jobs I came into contact with the various undercover agents and the various members of the various crime groups. And of course the spies. I was able to observe the members of these various groups. I noticed there was very little communication between the undercover agents of the various law enforcement agencies and they would spend a lot of their time trying to bust each other. I also noticed there was much more communication between the various members of the various crime groups and they knew a lot about the undercover agents and their respective agencies. As for the spies, all they wanted was information. They didn't do anything with the information they got, as far as I knew, and it seemed that even though they knew what information was valuable and what information was useless, they treated all the information the same. My own personal opinion is that much of the valuable information ended up being useless because it was never shared with anyone. Which probably explains why our government didn't know the Shah of Iran was going to be overthrown, or that the Soviet Union would disintegrate so quickly, or .......the list could go on and on. At one time or another many of these various and varied individuals would ask my help on their little projects. Sometimes I would help them and sometimes I wouldn't. But I always watched and learned and it isn't that difficult to do when you are a cook, dishwasher, (and when I got older) a bartender in various bars and restaurants around town. I also played in various garage bands that played at parties for a small fee. Usually the fee was for free beer and free food. You meet all sorts of people at parties. This news in from the land of the absurd. Some years ago my ex-wife began practicing black magic so she could put spells on me. She has been having some of her more dense relatives come to where I live to see if her magic spells have been working. I don't think any of her spells have been working but I don't know much about black magic so maybe my ex-wife's spells are working. I'm not the only person my ex-wife casts spells on. She casts spells on my two daughters and on her neighbors. I guess once you start casting spells you just can't stop. Now for an opinion. I am under the impression that God gave us free will so we could make our own decisions about whether to be sleazy or not. I believe that had God wanted us to be good "slaves" he could force us to be good, or bad, or any way He wants. I believe he gave us free will because he wants us to do His will of our own accord. Magic, or anything that takes away our free will, is in direct violation of God's will. Threats in order to achieve good or coercion of any kind is in direct violation of God's will. The mother of my two daughters has not had free will in years and continues to take orders from my ex-wife, her mentally disturbed relatives, and my relatives that do whatever my ex-wife and her cronies tell them to do. I am also leery of religions that tell people to kill or punish in God's name. I am under the impression that if God wanted somebody dead or punished he has the power to kill or punish whoever he wants dead or punished. My ex-wife, her immediate family and, over time, my relatives have pretended to be fine upstanding Christians for many, many years. Yet they are so immersed in hate and the desire for revenge that it is almost impossible to recognize anything they do as being "good". My ex-wife and her family spend almost all their waking time coming up with schemes to get revenge on me for divorcing my ex-wife (actually my ex-wife's and her mother's obsession with destroying me began in 1979 and continue to this day because I initially rejected my ex-wife's advances). This includes hurting the mother of my two daughters and hurting my two daughters. Chris Hoover and her mother, Neta Hays, spend almost all their waking time coming up with schemes to punish her ex-husband for divorcing her. They have no time for relaxation or fun. Their home environments are so filled with hate and the desire for revenge on persons they perceive to have somehow slighted or insulted them that I am of the opinion that it is harmful to kids to be raised in such an environment. |