I am not gay but because of rumors over the years by a psycho ex-wife, Faye Oekerman, and her sick family, I have, on numerous occasions, been harassed, threatened and assaulted for the perception that I was a homosexual.

In recent years I have quit going to various taverns to have a beer, eat some food and watch sporting events on the televisions that seem to be in every tavern. The reason I have quit going is very simple. It is difficult to kick back and relax when two or more persons are constantly harassing you for being gay when you are not.

I have recently found out that one known person and two unknown goons that follow her around are primarily responsible for this harassment.

If the two goons aren't harassing me then their friends are or they are spreading rumors to the other patrons. After doing some research I have found out that these are "hate" crimes. It is unbelievable to me that grown people would act in this childish, sleazy, and irresponsible manner.

In my younger days I worked as a cook and a bartender in various establishments and immediately learned that these establishments are places of business where people work hard. It is disrespectful to cause damage or disrupt the usually ambient atmosphere of such places of business. People don't go to business offices, doctors' offices, attorneys' offices and act sleazy or stupid, generally. A tavern or a restaurant is a place of business. It is absolutely amazing to me that some grown adults, especially members of the Oekerman family and their sleazy buddies, do not know this.

Even my two daughters know enough not to act in such a manner out in public.