I got a couple of emails asking me to say something more about stalkers and people who help the stalkers stalk.
I talked to my father a couple of months ago and, as usual, he was convinced marriage was forever (even if it's to a crazy spouse obsessed with killing you). He reminded me that the woman I married in 1979 (I divorced her in 1980 because she was psychopathic) was still my wife. He then went on to say I married into her family and that they considered the marriage to be forever.
The following is a true story about how crazy my ex-wife's family really is.
Some years back, while I was living in Beaverton, Oregon trying to raise a family, and while I was the stay-at-home father and the mother was working full time outside the home, unbeknownst to me my psycho ex-mother-in-law, Bonnie Oekerman, and her equally psycho daughter, Faye Oekerman, were keeping the apartment that the mother of our two daughters, our two daughters, and I were living in under surveillance.Here is what the psycho ex-mother-in-law would do. She would come to Beaverton from her residence in Oceanside, Oregon, where she and her husband had a business ripping off the locals, and she would stay at the Ambassador Hotel in Tigard, Oregon. The Ambassador Hotel in Tigard is very near Beaverton, Oregon.
Then she would snoop around our apartment complex, make friends with one or more of the residents (usually by telling them lies about me and my family) and then she would spy on us surreptitiously. Her psycho daughter, who lived in Hillsboro, Oregon, also near Beaverton, would also spy on me and my family.
During the school year it was my habit to get up early, make breakfast for the girls (they were in elementary school), walk them to the bus stop, and make sure they got off to school. Then I would clean the apartment and do whatever shopping needed to be done, study, and then meet them at the bus stop when they got off the bus after school.
We lived in an apartment with an indoor swimming pool and so, usually, at least once a day, the girls would go swimming with their friends and I would play lifeguard and watch them. It helped that in my younger days I actually was a lifeguard. Studying and learning and then actually doing lifeguard duty were some of the jobs being on a swim team entailed. That and learning how to clean pools and keep them clean.Had I known what the sleazy Oekerman family was up to I would have been much more apprehensive. But, can you believe that they would stoop so low as to stalk me and my family after I divorced the psycho Faye Oekerman in 1980. AND GET THIS!!!!!!! My mother and sister were helping them and lying to me about it!!!! Don't the Oekerman's believe in amicable divorce, or does a person have to be continually stalked and hunted when leaving the psycho Oekerman family? What do they think they are...some crime family nobody can get out of?????!!!!!
What makes this even weirder is that for years, without me knowing about it, they had been spying on me and whenever I went out with women, members of the psycho family would go to these women and tell them all these horrible things about me, including the lie that I was still married to her.
The following from William A. Eddy, LCSW, Esq. explains some of the mental illness of my ex-wife and her stalking family.
Because of their history of distress, those with personality disorders perceive the world as a much more threatening place than most people do. Therefore, their perceptions of other people's behavior is often distorted -- and in some cases delusional. Their world view is generally adversarial, so they often see all people as either allies or enemies in it. Their thinking is often dominated by cognitive distortions, such as: all-or-nothing thinking, emotional reasoning, personalization of benign events, minimization of the positive and maximization of the negative. They may form very inaccurate beliefs about the other person, but cling rigidly to those beliefs when they are challenged -- because being challenged is usually perceived as a threat.Lying may be justified in their eyes -- possibly to bring a reconciliation. (This can be quite convoluted, like the former wife who alleged child sexual abuse so that her ex-husband's new wife would divorce him and he would return to her -- or so she seemed to believe.) Or lying may be justified as a punishment in their eyes. Just as we have seen that an angry spouse may kill the other spouse, it is not surprising that many angry spouses lie under oath. There is rarely any consequence for this, as family court judges often believe the truth cannot be known -- or that both are lying.
My youngest daughter has actually been taught to hate me by my crazy ex-wife and her sick and evil family so my youngest daughter spends a lot of time telling me how evil I am and how much she hates me. She and her elder sister are over here right now and not just too long ago my youngest daughter told me once again how much she hates me. Man, I'm telling you, my ex-wife and her family are determined to even use my own daughters in order to get me to come back to that evil family.
Of course, the ex-in-laws are also pschyzo because one day they're trying to figure out ways to kill me and the next day they're trying to figure out ways to get me to come back to the ex-wife.
I think my ex-wife and her idiot family must be the king of the stalkers.
The L.A. Times has an interesting opinion piece called "When Children Run the Schools, Society Suffers". It points out how bad the situation is in many schools and why students are not learning much from their school experience. The following is an excerpt:
In one Southern California public school, the teacher tells an unruly group of eighth-graders that they are reading two to three years below grade level. This should not be breaking news because they get their test scores yearly. Rather than accepting responsibility for their deficits and working harder, the more savvy among them tell the principal that the teacher is insulting them.This same naive teacher then goes over the eighth-grade graduation requirements with them. Those who get two or more fails and more than two unsatisfactory marks in work habits and cooperation will not be graduating onstage with their peers. This time some of them write letters to the principal complaining that the teacher is calling them losers and telling them that they will never succeed in life.
When the inmates run the jail things become pretty sleazy.
For non-governmental organizations who become too sleazy, we have the NGO Watch - A Project of the American Enterprise Institute and the Federalist Society
For companies who think environmental laws don't apply to them we have Scorecard Home
The Washington Post exposes a sleazy non-profit organization at the following link.
IRS to Audit Nature Conservancy From Inside (washingtonpost.com)
One of the cleverest shows on tv is USA's Monk. I'm watching the season premiere right now and the writing, acting and direction is still witty and biting.
I also highly recommend Peacemakers.
Other than the Portland Trailblazers and an entertaining local minor league baseball team and Portland State Football (PSU used to have a baskeball team) there isn't a lot of sporting events here. While I'm not a big golf fan, it is fun to watch the golfers that come here once a year to play in the LPGA tournament and a tournament that used to be sponsored by Fred Meyer and is hosted, of course, by one of our favorite local golfers, Peter Jacobsen.
Absinthe & Cookies (a little bit bitter, a little bit sweet) has a post about....my lord...
faked moon landings. Man, how does the US government keep those fake moon landings secret when it can't keep anything else secret? Must be them space aliens.
My favorite therapist, Zoe D. Katze, is famous. The story that Dr. Katze was in was about scams in the therapy business with a particular emphasis on a sleazeball therapist by the name of Pat Mansmann. Apparently, Pat Mansmann knew only one diagnosis and her diagnosis was always to diagnose people with the dreaded "repressed memories of satanic cult activity" diagnosis which is, of course, a fake diagnosis. Also, Mansmann used the old "beat the hell out of the pillow" therapy which is a ridiculously useless therapy for anything.
Crimlaw has a post that links to a website where I found at this post where we find that among experts for lawyers are polygraphers who make more than many experts.
- Arson investigator $115
- Blood spatter $150
- DNA $205
- Fingerprint $100
- Firearm $96.43
- Hair/fiber $113.33
- Handwriting $287.50
- Neurologist $400
- Pathologist $248.85
- Pharmacologist $141.67
- Physician $356.25
- Polygraph $416
- Psychiatrist $215.30
- Psychologist $152.02
- Radiologist $125
- Toxicologist $219.44
Gimme a break. The polygraph is an instrument of scammers and junk science at its worst. AntiPolygraph.org has all sorts of information about polygraph junk science.
Lately there have been a few females that have come over to the house where I live and they get involved in deep, real deep, discussions about various international conspiracies. One of the conspiracies is that the Jews have an international conspiracy to take over the world. These females, including my female housemate, are convinced I'm a member of these conspiracies.
They bug me about my involvement in these conspiracies and whenever I say I'm not a part of all these delusional conpiracies they scream, "YOU'RE IN DENIAL! YOU'RE IN DENIAL! DENYING YOUR INVOLVEMENT SHOWS THAT YOU'RE REALLY INVOLVED!"
My female housemate never fails to slander me behind my back whenever anybody stops by. She told me that I was tricked into moving into this house in order to keep me within certain boundaries of Washington County for various reasons, one of the reasons being that a certain crooked cop in a certain stupid cult who believes the delusional accusations of a mentally ill ex-prosecutor and the false accusations of my ex-in-laws' idiot, racist cult needed me to move into this house in order to get me. She's probably right about the reasons for tricking me into moving into the house where I currently live.
The name of the cop seems to be retired sheriff of Washington County, Oregon, Jim Spinden, who has since moved to Idaho to be with his super duper, master Aryan race buddies.
Jim Spinden and some of the weird people who stop by to check me out remind me of Bobo, the demonic clown, and his fiendish clones.
The Vice Prez of the U.S. was recently in Portland. He didn't draw as many protesters as Prez Bush usually does but the Portland Police Bureau had to provide security anyway, as usual.
Protecting Presidents and Vice Presidents costs money. I'm not going to go into the amount of federal money needed to properly protect our presidents and vice presidents and other dignitaries, but on the local level some members the city council always bitch about how much it costs Portland, Oregon to wheel out the local gendarmes for protection. I don't know what the solution is for this little problem or even if there is a problem.
It got me to thinking about Iowa. Do the people of Iowa bitch about the cost of protecting the candidates?
In addition to acknowledging Clayton's contributions to software necessary for future NASA projects, he points out in this post the logic of building a moon base.
By the way, Clayton is a great writer of history on the second amendment and he has spent a lot of time building a collection of newspaper clippings and other types of archival material detailing the everyday, mundane activities of those engaged in commerce in our country's early years.
I heartily recommend his blog for daily reading. You might have to ignore his rather peculiar opinions about modern American culture, but do what I do. Read only his posts you like.
The following link will take you to a story of how a prosecutor got fired for...get this...
a prosecutor with the Jefferson County Commonwealth Attorney's office was fired yesterday amid allegations she grabbed and berated a juror who helped acquit a man accused of rape.Commonwealth's Attorney Dave Stengel fired prosecutor Sandra McLeod yesterday afternoon, hours after McLeod approached a juror in the Jefferson County courthouse about the case of Edward Nation.
Janet Irwin, an assistant jury manager who witnessed the incident, said McLeod grabbed the juror by the back of the arm and screamed at her in a packed hallway, asking why the jury found Nation innocent Tuesday night of kidnapping and raping a 17-year-old girl in the summer of 2002.
This is a novel way to get convictions......just beat up jurors who don't do what you want them to. Wait a minute, didn't the MAFIA try this to avoid convictions???!!!
Maybe this prosecutor hasn't figured out yet that maybe evidence of a crime should be presented to a jury before a jury should find someone guilty of a crime.
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In other news there is LA Police Chief Bratton making news.
Bratton said he wanted the department to solve more cases. The LAPD clears about 21% of its cases, and Bratton wants to increase that rate to 25% in 2004.
So the LAPD only solves less than one quarter of its cases. Maybe the idea that a police department should solve crimes is a bit outdated. Maybe the real job of police departments today is to help the Marxist social engineers re-engineer society.
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Well, it seems like the Detroit police are stuck in an eighteenth century bureaucratic nightmare.
The Detroit Police Department has made little progress fulfilling promises to end civil rights abuses against witnesses, suspects and citizens, a confidential report says.The Police Department still uses outdated detention cells, has failed to rewrite policies and continues to detain people without probable cause, according to a 114-page draft report prepared by an independent monitor and obtained by The Detroit News.
More broadly, the report suggests a growing frustration with the city’s lack of progress in meeting the commitments of two agreements, called consent decrees, the city signed with U.S. Justice Department officials in June.
Is it just me, but I always thought beating up and jailing witnesses was the best way to deal with crime. Isn't that how totalitarian regimes control crime? Stalin and Hitler and Saddam Mao and Pol Pot hit upon a clever way to control crime amongst the citizenry - just kill half or even two-thirds of the citizenry and crime will go down.
You know, if you carry the above to its logical conclusion, it would seem the best way to completely get rid of all crime is just to kill "everybody". I'm not sure how that would be accomplished because somebody's got to do the killing, but I would ask - just who would decide who would do all the killing in order to completely eradicate crime?
Just think, I know the answer. But noooooo, Britney wouldn't marry me for a few lousy hours and now I've lost the contest.
But now I learn that Howard has a winner.
By the way, the answer to the trivia question lies here and here.
Howling Point has a post that indicates not only is he feeling feisty, but he has an opinion about politics in NASA and he's feisty enough to share it with us. I don't know about you, but I hope Howling Point stays feisty for a long time.
There is something I want to add to all the discussions going on about the Prez's idea to transform NASA into an agency that can actually get us into space and it is:
Was the ultimate goal of NASA to get us to the moon and then slack off?In NASA's off-time did the administrators just sit around and congratulate themselves on getting to the moon and figured they could waste money appropriated by Congress for space exploration in favor of a space station which has not really contributed to the original mission of NASA?
The following is an excerpt from loony Roger Weidner's book entitled "The Weidner Method". The loony Victor Oekerman/Roger Weidner gang thinks the book is a brilliant law book but the gang also thinks I'm helping space aliens kidnap half the population of loony, homophobic, racist Washington County, Oregon.
The following excerpt shows how crazy Roger and some of his buddies are planning on arresting one of Roger's enemies on false accusations of murder and other crimes. Roger calls the sheriff's department, tells him he's a former prosecutor and needs help making an arrest. The cop that goes out to where Roger is is not stupid, though, and won't be conned into arresting an innocent person.
Roger and Victor Oekerman are always telling my relatives and other people to falsely charge me with all sorts of crimes including, like I've written before, that I'm helping space aliens kidnap half the county. Roger and some of the rest of the gang tell my relatives to go from cop to cop until they find somebody who will arrest me. That's probably one reason why I'm always being investigated.
Believe it or not, Roger and the gang actually get people to believe some of their delusional false accusations, including a Dr. Ron Turco of Washington County, Oregon.
The Roger Weidner/Victor Oekerman gang used similar tactics to the ones described in the excerpt below to get somebody in the Navy to attempt to tamper with my military records.
"This is Milton Brown, he's a shameless treacherous thief. He murdered his partner, forged the documents, he's wiped out every partner he's ever had." and he was just tweeking, twitching back and forth while I said this about him. He had his auctioneer with him."If you come down to number 8 Brown I'm going to arrest you," I said.
I went down to number 8, went in and called the sheriff's office and said I was going to perform a citizen's arrest. They said to call 911 and then Sergeant Johnson from the Gladstone police department showed up. Johnson is mid-forties, gray/blond hair, 5-10 maybe 180 pounds, has kind of a drill sergeant persona about him. He tries to project that hard edge military type. When Johnson arrived with another police officer down there at number 8 I told him that I was going to arrest Milton Brown for murder and theft. He was writing this down.
"You're not going to arrest anyone or I'll arrest you," he said.
"Listen Johnson, I'm a former prosecutor. I didn't ask you for your advice. I just asked you to come down here and stand by." So that kinda backed him off a little bit. I went over to Brown and I grabbed him by the arm.
"I'm arresting you Milton Brown for the murder of Don Kettleberg and the theft of that property," and his eyes-I've known the guy for 30 years and I've never seen his eyes because they're right down in the corner of his nose. When they're real crooked like that they won't look at you. They always look down. You cannot get eye contact with a thief because he cannot look at you because he's lying. You have to be a very accomplished attorney to lie with your eyes open. Of course, an attorney is usually not lying, he's getting someone else to do it. I was kind of fascinated to see what color his eyes actually were. He's a Shylock. If you want to know about Milton Brown read The Merchant of Venice and you've got a picture of Milton Brown. These little beady eyes, he's had his nose bobbed, he's had his ears laid back, he's had a hair transplant to make himself look ordinary, but if you saw him in his natural configuration he would be bald, big out ears, long pointed nose- an absolute Shylock-and these Eurasian eyes, slightly slanted back, a kind of unusual gray color, like a wolf's eyes. So I arrested Milton Brown and then Brown ran around and hid behind Sergeant Johnson.
"You stay away from me! You stay away from me!" he says standing back behind Johnson, looking over his shoulder while Johnson's talking to me. I wasn't intending on taking Brown into custody.
"Did you get pictures of all this?" I asked one of my supporters. Someone bought #8 and then they went to another unit, number 2, to auction that off. I was pointing out Brown.
"He's stealing this one too," and just making these statements to intimidate him. I'm fascinated by Milton Brown because of his genealogy and what he represents. Milton Brown is the antithesis of everything that I believe in and the epitome of a miser. Everything for him is money. Everything is bought and paid for. He is totally devoid of any kind of moral conscience at all. That fascinates me that he has been able to corrupt to the extent that he has, to the extent that our culture has become a money culture. He is the center. He has the whole state, the whole court system, the state government circling and protecting him. He is what the laws are written to protect us against. It's completely upside-down. The thought that that little viper could do that is just mind-boggling. I had no idea when I became involved in this. I thought, naively, that once I exposed some of this they would be forced to break loose. Instead, there's been this coalescing around him by the whole system.
We left out of the Tri-County Mobile Home Park and there were 2 police cars parked about a block away with 4 officers in each one. They were waiting as back-up in case something happened. We went down to the Gladstone Police Department to report to chief of police King because I'd told King previously what was going on. King is about 5 foot 10, bald, cuts his hair short, pug-nosed, looks like he had maybe been a boxer at one time. He has that small face, fairly husky fella, maybe 180 lbs. When I'd spoken with him before he was a little bit nervous talking to me, but not threatening at all in our previous conversation. Now I was back to tell him that Johnson threatened me with arrest. We walked in and asked for King. He came around the outside and Johnson was with him. I started to explain to him what I was doing, arresting, and that I was threatened by Johnson.
"Well I've read all that stuff that you submitted and it's a bunch of crap Weidner," he said.
"Well King, it is not a bunch of crap. I've testified to this in court repeatedly and." Glaring, with Johnson standing by his side, he interrupted me.
"You're full of shit Weidner." I couldn't believe it.
"Well, you're obviously very corrupt King and in the pocket of Milton Brown," I said, "but you're not very smart King because you're saying this in front of all these witnesses here," and we left. I went over to the city council and said that I wanted to speak at the next council meeting, which was coming up on June 11th. Gladstone. I showed up out there on the appointed day with 8 to 10 people. I'd asked King to show up and he showed up. Retired Marion county sheriff Jack Utterback and his wife Dixie showed up also. When they called my name I got up in front of that council, said who I was, pointed to King and said what I did out there.
Message to black people. Don't tell me I have to vote for a white guy just because I'm white. Of course, I'm not white enough for the white supremacists and they would kill me if they ever got power and they would kill me just for not being white enough, but again, I say, "Black people, don't tell me I have to vote for only a white candidate." Remember, I voted for Ralph Nader, who is Lebanese, and this caused Democrats, Republicans, and people who didn't even vote to hate me.
According to Howard Bashman if I win a trivia contest I don't get nuthin. That ain't fair. I should get at least a million dollars or get a chance to marry Britney Spears for a couple of hours.
You know what I think. I think Howard Bashman is some sort of attorney. Probably one of those subversive attorneys that work for drug addicts like Rush Limbaugh.
According to a couple of news outlets a judge made a decision based, in part, on data provided by a brilliant professor and his ertstwhile students that just "happened to be non kosher".
The following is a paraphrase of one of the students: "We're just college students, but hey, we're not as bad as Pete Rose".
Since sports and academics have such sterling characters and they are protecting the American way of life, I'm not worried about illegal immigration.
Did you know that if you put the phrases "Harvard Divinity School" and "Harvard Women's Studies" into the Google search engine, you will get curse words?
Tim Blair: ZIONIST PUPPET REJECTED. Tim Blair has more of a common sense perspective about American news and American idiosyncrasies than many American journalists. I also like Tim's sense of humor.
Go Phily. Of course, the Colts will win the Superbowl but Phily will give them a good fight.
By the way, I would have spelled Phily as "Philly" but I lost one of my "L's". I lost my period (".") once and then I had to use stars ("*") a couple of times but it caused some people to think I was writing posts insulting them* You know***** what I truly f***ing, me****an****####!!!!!???
It never ceases to amaze me at the absolute insanity of my ex-in-laws, the Victor Oekerman clan which I call the pig family. Only in Washington County, Oregon have I ever witnessed the following: an ex-father-in-law and his neo-Nazi buddies bribing my relatives into falsely accusing me of weird crimes with the convoluted reason being that this might force me back into a relationship with a violent, psychopathic female.
Now remember, in my late teens and early twenties I did a lot of partying in Hollywood, which is one of the weirdest places on the planet.
Washington County is the only place I've ever been where an extremely ugly family spends such a huge amount of time trying to pretend to strangers (and me) how popular they are. I've also never been associated with a family (I divorced out of this family in 1980) with such low self-esteem. If they want to be popular, then they ought to join one of the clubs or sports teams. Since they spend so much time, money, and effort trying to be popular maybe I should tell them that THE BEST WAY TO DO IT IS TO PLAY IN A ROCK AND ROLL BAND.
For some reason, as soon as I joined my first rock and roll garage band, all of sudden I was popular as long as I brought the other band members and their musical instruments with me. I could never figure it out. People would invite me to a party and when I asked, "Sure, when and where?" They would say, "Well this time and this day." I would say, " Ok, I'll be there and I'll even bring some blues albums."
Sometimes I heard somebody say something like,"Blues albums? Why would we want to listen to blues albums if you guys are going to be playing?"
Sometimes I would be astonished and say, "You mean.....you mean...you want me to invite those other guys? If we do that then we'll never get to hear the blues albums because we'll have to listen to that loud horrible, off key, off chord crap that they call music?"
Sometimes I would hear this reply, which chagrined me beyond belief, "Well, yeah, we know you guys sound like crap, but we like the drummer. By the way what do you do in the band? We saw you talking to one of the two important guys in the band and we thought, since you don't seem to be so important, if, you know, we figured we could ask you if they would come and play at our party?" I replied I played rythym guitar but only under duress. Anyway, I told, many times, "no" to the people who wanted our band to be popular playing crappy music. I was overuled by the other, more popular, members of the band who always got more invites than I did, but I didn't care because....hahahaha....I was usually the one making all the arrangements for getting the guys and accessories to whichever place had been decided on for us to play music and.......hahahaha...I decided which party we would play at. The other guys didn't seem to care.
I suppose I must digress to explain something. When I say I was in a garage band I didn't mean to say that I was in a band where the members stayed the same.
Band members were always coming and going and if there were two bands playing in the same two blocks, then we just exchanged places. in other words, I was in a garage band that was in two places in the same afternoon and which was constantly evolving with different numbers of members and most of the music, with the exception of playing the basic rock and roll classics back for the late seventies and early 80's (there were none, thank the Lord), we played music that was part latin, rock and roll, blues, reggae, latin salsa, blue grass (in honor of the Grateful Dead) and just jammed.
Man, I got off on a tangent. Anyway the following is more ridiculous stuff that is real.
It seems the neo Nazi ex-father-in-law bribed some of my relatives (John McClelland Hays, Neta Hays, and Chris Andrea Hays) to attempt to falsely accuse me to a couple of local police departments and the local DA's office.
Apparently, it didn't work over the years and my ex-father-in-law, Victor Oekerman, and his circle of neo-Nazi friends won't give my relatives the money that was promised.
Also, Deputy Chief Lila Ashenbrenner of the Hillsboro, Oregon police department was a member of a state board which fined one of Victor Oekerman's private investigators 1000 dollars for misrepresentation.
Apparently, since 1980 Victor has been hiring private investigators whose jobs were basically to harass me into coming back to his psycho daughter, Faye Marie Oekerman.
Since it seems so easy to bribe members of the local Chruch of Christ into making false accusations like my relatives did, I am really developing a low opinion of the Church of Christ and its members.